Sunday, February 28, 2010

Ever heard of Selena?

As a little girl I would listen to Selena tapes with my friend Ashley
when her movie came out with Jennifer Lopez I owned it on Video Cassette
even though I had no idea what she what was
saying most of the time her music was catchy and her story was so sad
about her death, today I was switching channels and found a marathon of her different performances and then this show Selena Vive come on so I decided to
Wikepedia Selena...
the movie doesn't show much of what exactly happen at the time of
her death so this info I found on Selena was pretty interesting to know
I hope you enjoy...
Selena Quintanilla-Pérez (April 16, 1971 – March 31, 1995), best known mononymously as Selena, was a Mexican American singer who has been called "The Queen of Tejano music".[2] The youngest child of a Mexican-American couple, Selena released her first album at the age of twelve. She won Female Vocalist of the Year at the 1987 Tejano Music Awards and landed a recording contract with EMI a few years later. Her fame grew throughout the early 1990s, especially in Spanish-speaking countries.

Selena attained further notability in North America after she was murdered at the age of 23 by Yolanda Saldívar, the president of her fan club. On April 12, 1995, two weeks after her death, George W. Bush, governor of Texas at the time, declared her birthday "Selena Day" in Texas.[3] Warner Bros. produced Selena, a film based on her life starring Jennifer Lopez in 1997. Selena's life was also the basis of the musical Selena Forever starring Veronica Vazquez as Selena. As of June 2006, Selena was commemorated with a museum and a bronze life-sized statue (Mirador de la Flor in Corpus Christi, Texas), which are visited by hundreds of fans each week.


Early life

Selena was born in Lake Jackson, Texas, to a Mexican[4] father, Abraham Quintanilla Jr. and a Mexican-American mother, Marcella Ofelia Samora,[5] and was raised as a Jehovah's Witness.[6] She began singing at the age of six; when she was nine her father founded the singing group Selena y Los Dinos, which she fronted. They initially performed at the Quintanilla family's restaurant, PappaGayo's, but the restaurant failed shortly afterwards.[3]

Selena as "Selena y Los Dinos"

The family soon went bankrupt and was evicted from their home. Taking their musical equipment in an old bus, they relocated to Corpus Christi, Texas. There, they performed wherever they could: at street corners, weddings, quinceañeras, and fairs.[7] Their efforts at spreading their names and talents paid off in 1985 when the fourteen-year-old Selena recorded her first album for a local record company. The album was not sold in stores and her father bought all of the original copies. It was re-released in 1995 under the title Mis Primeras Grabaciones.

Selena did well in school, but as she grew more popular as a musical performer, the travel demands of her performance schedule began to interfere with her education. Her father pulled her out of school altogether when she was in eighth grade.[2] She continued her education on the road; at age seventeen she earned a high school diploma from The American School of Correspondence in Chicago, Illinois. Selena released her third album, Alpha, in 1986.

Success

At the 1987 Tejano Music Awards, Selena won Best Female Vocalist (and dominated the award for the next seven years).[2][8] In 1988, she released two albums, Preciosa and Dulce Amor. In 1989, José Behar, the former head of the Sony Latin Music division, signed Selena with Capitol/EMI, a record company he founded. He later said that he signed Selena because he thought he had discovered the next Gloria Estefan.[2] Selena signed a contract with Coca-Cola to become one of its advertising spokesmen in Texas that same year,[3] and her concerts drew thousands of people.

Selena holding a Coca-Cola bottle for her photoshoot

In 1988, Selena met Chris Pérez, who had his own band. Two years later, the Quintanilla family hired him to play in Selena's band and they quickly fell in love. At first her father did not approve of their relationship and went as far as firing Pérez from the band. He eventually came to accept the relationship.[9] On April 2, 1992, Selena and Pérez were married in Nueces County, Texas, and Selena added her new husband's surname to her own.

In 1990, Selena released another album, Ven Conmigo, written by her main songwriter and brother Abraham Quintanilla, III. This recording was the first Tejano album recorded by a female artist to achieve gold status. Around the same time, a registered nurse and fan named Yolanda Saldívar approached Selena's father with the idea of starting a fan club. Her wish was granted and she became the club's president; later she became the manager of Selena's clothing boutiques.[7] Selena released another hit album in 1992, Entre a Mi Mundo, which also achieved gold status.[10] Songs from that album, such as "Como La Flor", helped make Selena a star. Her 1993 Selena Live! album won a Grammy award for Best Mexican-American Performance



Selena released her next album, Amor Prohibido, in 1994. The album was nominated for another Grammy award for Mexican-American Album of the Year. She began designing and manufacturing a clothing line in 1994 and opened two boutiques called Selena Etc., one in Corpus Christi and the other in San Antonio. Both were equipped with in-house beauty salons. Hispanic Business magazine reported that the singer earned over five million dollars from these boutiques.[11] Selena also made appearances alongside Erik Estrada in a Latin soap opera titled Dos Mujeres, Un Camino.[7]

Selena and her band continued to receive accolades; Billboard's Premio Lo Nuestro awarded them six prestigious awards including Best Latin Artist and Song of the Year for "Como La Flor". Coca-Cola released a commemorative bottle in her honor to celebrate their five-year relationship. Meanwhile, her duet with the Barrio Boyzz, "Dondequiera Que Estes", raced to the top of the Latin charts. This prompted Selena to tour in New York City, Argentina, Puerto Rico and Central America where she was in growing demand. The duet with Salvadoran singer Alvaro Torres, "Buenos Amigos", was also a hit.

Selena during her Amor Prohibido photoshoot

By fall of 1994, Amor Prohibido was a commercial success in Mexico and made four number one Latin hits, replacing Gloria Estefan's Mi Tierra on the chart's number one spot. It sold over 400,000 copies by late 1994 in the U.S. and another 50,000 copies in Mexico, reaching gold status.[7] At this point, Selena developed plans to record an English-language album, but continued to tour for Amor Prohibido while beginning preparations for the album. Her next album Selena Live! won Best Mexican-American Album at the 36th Grammy Awards.

In 1995, Selena made a cameo appearance in the romantic comedy Don Juan DeMarco, which starred Marlon Brando, Johnny Depp and Faye Dunaway; she appeared as a background mariachi singer during the first scene. In February 1995, Selena played a concert at the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo in the Houston Astrodome, which attracted over 65,000 fans—more than country stars such as George Strait, Vince Gill and Reba McEntire.[3] Despite her busy schedule, Selena visited local schools to talk to students about the importance of education. She also donated her time to civic organizations such as D.A.R.E. and planned a fund raising concert to help AIDS patients. These demonstrations of community involvement won her loyalty from her fan base.[12] Selena scheduled her English album for release in the summer of 1995. Afraid that her fans would think she was turning her back on them, she was working on a new Tejano album as well. Meanwhile, she planned to open two more boutiques including one in Monterrey, Mexico.

Death

In early 1995, the Quintanillas discovered that Yolanda Saldívar, the president of Selena's fan club (Texas-section) and the manager of her boutiques, was embezzling money from the fan club and decided to fire her. Soon after the fallout, Selena agreed to meet Saldívar in a Days Inn hotel in Corpus Christi[13] on the morning of March 31, 1995 to retrieve paperwork for tax purposes. At the hotel, Selena demanded the missing financial papers. Saldívar delayed the handover by claiming she had been raped in Mexico.[2] The singer drove Saldívar to a local hospital where doctors found no evidence of rape.[14] Saldívar returned to the motel where Selena again demanded the missing financial papers.

Selena told Saldivar that she just couldn't be trusted anymore. At 11:49 am, Yolanda drew a gun from her purse, pointing it at Selena. As the singer turned and left the room, Saldívar shot her once in the back. Critically wounded, Selena ran towards the lobby to get help. She collapsed on the floor as the clerk called 911, with Saldívar chasing her, calling her a bitch.[15] Before collapsing to the floor, Selena named Saldívar as her assailant and gave the room number where she had been shot.[16] After an ambulance and the police arrived on the scene, Selena was transported to a local hospital. She died there from loss of blood at 1:05 p.m., two weeks before her 24th birthday.[17]

After death

Selena's death had widespread impacts. Major networks interrupted their regular programming to break the news; Tom Brokaw referred to Selena as "The Mexican Madonna".[18] Numerous vigils and memorials were held in her honor, and radio stations in Texas played her music non-stop.[2] Her funeral drew approximately 60,000 mourners, many of whom traveled from outside the United States.[2] Among the celebrities who were reported to have immediately phoned the Quintanilla family to express their condolences were Gloria Estefan, Julio Iglesias and Madonna.[7] People magazine published a commemorative issue in honor of Selena's memory and musical career, titled Selena 1971–1995, Her Life in Pictures.[2] A few days afterwards, Howard Stern mocked Selena's murder and burial, poked fun at her mourners, and criticized her music. Stern said, "This music does absolutely nothing for me. Alvin and the Chipmunks have more soul... Spanish people have the worst taste in music. They have no depth." Stern's comments outraged and infuriated the Hispanic community across Texas.[19] After a disorderly conduct arrest warrant was issued in his name, Stern later made an on-air apology, in Spanish, for his comments.[20] Two weeks after her death, on April 12, George W. Bush, then Governor of Texas, declared Selena's birthday April 16 as "Selena Day" in Texas.

That summer, Selena's album Dreaming of You, a combination of Spanish-language songs and new English-language tracks, debuted at number one on the U.S. Billboard 200, making her the first Hispanic singer to accomplish this feat[21] and the second highest debut after Michael Jackson's HIStory.[7] On its release date, the album sold over 175,000 copies, a record for a female pop singer, and it sold two million copies in its first year.[22] Songs such as "I Could Fall in Love" and "Dreaming of You" were played widely by mainstream English-language radio, with the latter reaching #21 on the Billboard Hot 100. Meanwhile, "I Could Fall in Love", while ineligible for the Hot 100 at the time, reached #12 on the Hot 100 Airplay chart and the top 10 on the Adult Contemporary Chart. David Byrne has paid homage to Selena on his past tours with Tosca Strings by performing their duo God's Child. "Dreaming of You" was certified three times Platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America.[23]

In October 1995, a Houston jury convicted Saldívar of first degree murder and sentenced her to life in prison, with the possibility of parole in thirty years.[24] The gun used to kill Selena was later destroyed and the pieces thrown into Corpus Christi Bay.[25][26]

Legacy

Selena, pictured singing during the "Selena Vive" concert

Jennifer Lopez played Selena in a film about her life. Directed by Gregory Nava, the biopic opened with mostly positive reviews.[27] Over 20,000 people auditioned for the leading role in the movie.[28] The film stirred some controversy in the Mexican-American community, since Lopez is Puerto Rican-American and played the role of a singer of Mexican descent. But Selena's fans supported the movie, and Lopez's acting in the film helped elevate her career.[29] Although Lopez succeeded as a pop star a few years later, Selena's voice was dubbed in for all the songs in the movie.[30] For her role, Lopez was nominated for a Golden Globe award for Best Actress in a Musical.[31]

Reliant Stadium in Houston hosted a tribute concert, Selena ¡VIVE!, on April 7, 2005. Held a week after the 10th anniversary of her death, over 65,000 fans attended the concert, which featured high-profile artists including Gloria Estefan, Pepe Aguilar, Thalía, Paulina Rubio, Ana Barbara, Alejandra Guzmán, Ana Gabriel, and Fey. The artists performed renditions of Selena's music, as did her brother, A.B. Quintanilla, who performed with his band Kumbia Kings backed with footage of Selena singing "Baila Esta Cumbia". Broadcast live on the Univision network, Selena ¡VIVE! is the highest-rated and most-viewed Spanish-language show in American television history. The show, which lasted over three hours, scored a 35.9 Nielsen household rating.[32]

The American Bank Center in Corpus Christi named their 2,526-seat concert auditorium, Selena Auditorium, in her memory.

Happy Anniversary


Last Friday night was the one year anniversary of Jason moving in with me and to honor and congratulate him for dealing with me for a long 12 months, I decided to take him out on a “date night”

We started at a nice Sushi Restaurant called Tokyo’s they have a hibachi grill and everything, we get there and wait for our friends Shawn and Kaleena to arrive (there was some miscommunication as to this being a “date night” and they sort of got invited, but that is ok the more the merrier) so once they arrive we get seated and wait for the show…. We eat and drink and eat some more, then decide where to go to next.

Shawn suggest the strip club which is always fun so why not? We get there and go inside an hour or so go by and they do what they call their “Showtime” 2 lap dances and a shirt for the price of one lap dance ---can’t be beat, so I say I never had one and Jason offers to buy it for me as my anniversary present. I pick a girl that is kind of 50’s style with a big red flower in her hair, we saw her dance once and she was a cutie. Jason gets her attention and we head to the VIP section:

Stripper: ok you get two dances we can split it up or just give you the two.

Kara: awe lets share the wealth

Stripper: ok but I have to warn you I rather dance for girls it’s less creepy

We sit down on this couch and chit chat, she tells me about her family, and that she graduated from college with a bachelor’s in Business, but she only has to work 3 days a week here so it helps with her having a 10 mos. Old baby at home…so forth and so on

Then out of no where she gets naked and says:

Stripper: my motto is if you have what I have I don’t care if you touch

Kara: Alrighty then …good deal

She starts dancing and tells me about how she is on weight watchers and asked how long Jason and I have been together, then she cusses him out for not putting a ring on this finger and making me an honest girl: (she said cuss words that even made my sailor mouth blush)

Then we start to joke around with her and just shoot the shit… it was really cool/she was a cool chick.

Before I knew it my song was over and she asked Jason if he wanted the other one or should she give it to me.

He said give it to her (apparently he was having more fun watching) so second song comes on and we bullshit again. Talking about Facebook and chain smoking and more weight watchers stuff! It was like I was chit chatting with an old friend, once it was all over and we went back to the table I realized she said she’d been dancing since she was 19 she’d been in the business for 6 years which only made her 25 years old WHAT A BABY!!! But hey she works hard for her money and she got a fan out of me and Jason.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Is it Sad that I watched the show yet don't remember him?

Andrew Koenig's Body Found in Vancouver Park

Story photo: Andrew Koenig's Body Found in Vancouver ParkUs Magazine

Actor Andrew Koenig -- best known for his role as Kirk Cameron's pal Boner on the '80s sitcom Growing Pains -- was found dead Thursday in Vancouver, B.C.

At a press conference attended by Koenig's family Thursday evening, police said the actor's body was discovered "in a densely wood area ... unseen from the path" by "family and friends who initiated their own private search." (His father, Star Trek actor Walter Koenig, was among the people who joined in on the search.)

Foul play is not suspected.

"My son took his own life," his father Walter told reporters, adding that his son had been battling depression.

"Don't ignore it; don't rationalize it," he said in regards to depression. "Extend a hand."

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The 41-year-old actor had been missing since Feb. 16.

After visiting pals in Vancouver, he never boarded his flight back to Los Angeles. (Prior to his trip, he reportedly had moved out of his Venice, Calif., apartment of nine years and sold a number of his belongings.)

His parents phoned police after receiving a disturbing letter from their son.

In an interview with UsMagazine.com earlier this week, his father Walter refused to discuss details on the note. But he revealed that his son was not taking medication for depression.

Asked how his son was coping with depression, Walter told Us, "That is what we are trying to find out ... In his point of view, things were not going well."

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Burlesque artist Jenny Magenta -- the last person to see Koenig alive -- told Us he "looked healthy" when he arrived in Vancouver Feb. 11 to visit her. "We were talking about old times and friends." But she told Us he soon began acting "out of character," insisting on paying her for allowing him to stay at her apartment.

"Think about it -- a friend who you've known for years comes to visit you and they're wanting to pay you rent?" she told Us. "That's just weird."

When she woke up Feb. 14, Magenta tells Us Koenig was missing.

"No parent should have to deal with anytime like this," Koenig's father Walter told Us in an interview earlier this week.

He described his son as "a good human being who has "an awful lot left to contribute in this world."

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Monday, February 22, 2010

Just another Saturday night

Saturday night Jason and I went to a local Mexican restaurant to eat for a Hugo’s birthday (Valerie’s Husband –see Life with Valerie) , it wasn’t very cold out so I decided to wear a pair of my flip flops from last year. As I walked in I felt the flip flop loosen on my right foot once seated I investigated the foot which lead to me realizing my shoe had broken. I tried rigging said shoe several times but once I walked for a long period of time (didn’t help it was a buffet style restaurant) the shoe would come unloose and then I would be stuck back on square one. Everyone was going to go bowling after dinner so this shoe situation was going to not work, I told Jason we needed to run home so I could change shoes and meet everyone back at the bowling alley. We head home, I changed shoes, and then we were right back out the door. As we start to approach the bowling Alley Valerie calls to tell us that there is a long wait and so they are going to the next town. We would have gone, but we spend Friday night in Beaumont (the next town) and decided to just go home to call it a night. On our way home a second time we go the back way and end up on a two lane street (as in one lane going one way and one lane going the other). As we go straight we see a guy walking on our side of the road he is on the “shoulder” between the ditch and the road. As we start to pull over to the left in order not to hit him he looses his balance and goes sliding into the ditch he then gets back up and slides back down the ditch this time hitting his mouth. I then see something fly out of his mouth to what looks like a tooth! The whole incident happened so fast we didn’t have time to turn around and check on the poor guy, I’m sure he was heading to the corner store to pick up a 40oz and some Newport’s (yeah it’s that kind of neighborhood) In conclusion… it was probably the weirdest thing I’ve ever witnessed in my entire life. Hope he is ok.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

little known, very interesting facts about Texas


1. Beaumont to El Paso : 742 miles
2.. Beaumont to Chicago : 770 miles
3... El Paso is closer to California than to Dallas
4.. World's first rodeo was in Pecos , July 4, 1883.
5. The Flagship Hotel in Galveston is the only hotel in North America built over water. Destroyed by Hurricane Ike -2008!
6. The Heisman Trophy was named after John William Heisman who was the first full-time coach at Rice University in Houston ..
7. Brazoria County has more species of birds than any other area in North America
8. Aransas Wildlife Refuge is the winter home of North America 's only remaining flock of whooping cranes...
9. Jalapeno jelly originated in Lake Jackson in 1978.
10. The worst natural disaster in U.S. history was in 1900, caused by a hurricane, in which over 8,000 lives were lost on Galveston Island .
11. The first word spoken from the moon, July 20,1969, was " Houston ," but the space center was actually in Clear Lake City at the time.
12. King Ranch in South Texas is larger than Rhode Island ...
13. Tropical Storm Claudette brought a U.S. rainfall record of 43" in 24 hours in and around Alvin in July of 1979...
14. Texas is the only state to enter the U.S. by TREATY, (known as the Constitution of 1845 by the Republic of Texas to enter the Union ) instead of by annexation. This allows the Texas Flag to fly at the same height as the U.S. Flag, and may divide into 5 states.
15. A Live Oak tree near Fulton is estimated to be 1500 years old.
16. Caddo Lake is the only natural lake in the state.
17. Dr Pepper was invented in Waco in 1885. There is no period in Dr Pepper..
18. Texas has had six capital cities:
Washington -on- the Brazos, Harrisburg , Galveston ,Velasco, West Columbia and Austin ..
19. The Capitol Dome in Austin is the only dome in the U..S. which is taller than the Capitol Building in Washington DC (by 7 feet).
20. The San Jacinto Monument is the tallest free standing monument in the world and it is taller than the Washington monument.
21. The name ' Texas ' comes from the Hasini Indian word 'tejas' meaning friends. Tejas is not Spanish for Texas ..
22. The State Mascot is the Armadillo (an interesting bit of trivia about the armadillo is they always have four babies.. They have one egg, which splits into four, and they either have four males or four females.).
23. The first domed stadium in the U.S. was the Astrodome in Houston .

Thursday, February 18, 2010

I Will Never Be a Nascar Driver

From the ages of 5 to 8 I would not use the door to the car to get out, I would climb out the window. My mom owned a grey piece of shit car with no air conditioner so the windows were always down. We had just returned from either grocery shopping or something and I start to climb out of the window. First of all the doors are unlocked and this is about 20 years ago so locks were still placed on the top of the door near the window and the lock was about as long as my pinkie finger, I start to climb out when I find that my favorite puff paint shirt with a city of cats motif has gotten caught on the lock. No sooner then I realize I’m dangling from the door completely bent in two with my knees in touching my chin, my mom locks the door and the pinkie sized lock shoots back in the top of the door, my shirt then unhooks from the lock and I go crashing face first into gravel that we called our driveway. I immediately feel tremendous pain and start to cry; my mom helps me up and runs me into the house where she goes to the kitchen to get a towel and other first aid items to help with my wounds. All I remember is not being able to close my mouth, due to rocks being lodged in my lips and gums, and all I could taste was dirt. Once we assessed the situation and cleaned me up I still had all my teeth and only a couple of scratches. From that day on I was officially the big girl that got out of the car like a normal person ---undo seat belt, unlock door, open door, step out, and close door!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

The Bet

I have two good friends from high school who I used to hang out with all the time, we shall name them Tibs and Lucky. We would have parties at Tib’s dad’s house all the time, it was our weekend life. One of the last parties we had over there all three of us decided we were going to make a bet.

Who will get laid tonight?

Winner(s): didn’t have to clean the house after the party

Loser(s) did have to clean the house

If all failed/succeeded bet was called off and all had to clean

There a couple of things you should know before I move forward:

1. None of us have a significant other, all single

2. Lucky is a virgin

3. Tibs is a light weight, when it comes to drinking

Now we may proceed, the night starts like any other night with shots and drinks and music galore.

Let’s begin with Lucky

He has invited a girl name Leslie over to be his “prospect” for the night, but he starts talking to a different girl named Janine. This pisses off Leslie so if Lucky had any play with her at all that night it went straight out the window....As for Janine she too was a virgin and was not giving anything to Lucky --- Poor Lucky mission failed and bet LOST

Now on to Tibs

This fool started drinking heavily from the beginning, 8:00 he was passed out in his dad’s bed

No luck for the Tibster

Finally me *the winner* the only one of the crew that got laid and that was because trusty Jason (her FWB) was there to tap one out in the back of his CRV <-- Yeah I know again. (see blog entitled "Yelp heard around the Neighborhood)

It was a bit awkward to have us in the act in the back of the vehicle on the street in front of the house with the back of the CRV open and for him to actually talk to people while they walk to their cars to leave, but this is the kind of sacrifice you make when there is a bet involved.

The next morning I got to watch Lucky and Tibs clean up while I sat there hung-over…. Yeah I was hung-over, but at least I didn’t’ have to clean